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Tips for Making Breastfeeding Stick
How to make breastfeeding
a long-term bond between you and baby.
Breastfeeding
can be wonderful--emotionally and physically--for both mother and
baby. Here are six ways you can dedicate yourself to breastfeeding:
1. Enlist the support of your partner and family. They may have conflicting
feelings about your breastfeeding--it takes up a lot of your time,
and may make them feel out of the loop. But you can educate them on
breast milk's many benefits and let them know that breastfeeding is
something you want to do and are happy to do. They can lend a hand
by burping the baby afterward or helping you get settled into a comfortable
position. If your partner wants a chance to feed the baby or other
relatives want to babysit, you can pump and let them give breast milk
in a bottle.
2. Find a breastfeeding
friend. Just like it helps to exercise or diet with a buddy, having
someone to talk to about nursing can make it easier. You can problem-solve
together, but also talk about the joys of nursing, which are things
your husband or family members may not be able to relate to. You can
find other breastfeeding moms at new-mother groups and La Leche League
meetings.
3. Take it a
month at a time. The American Academy of Pediatrics wants you to try
breastfeeding for baby's first year, but those 12 months can seem
like an epic stretch to a brand-new mom. You may be better off setting
small goals and congratulating yourself as you hit each one: "I
made it through the first six weeks!" and then "I've done
it for three months!" followed by "I can keep going to six
months." By that point, you may have discovered that it's easier
to just keep breastfeeding than to make the transition to bottles
and formulas and the work and expense they entail.
4. Don't second-guess
yourself and start formula. Some nursing moms become convinced that
their baby is not getting enough on breast milk alone, or that they
somehow need nutrition from formula. But if your baby is gaining weight
at each pediatrician visit, she's getting enough milk. And while formula
is nutritious, it's not as good for your baby as breast milk.
5. On the other
hand, don't hesitate to supplement with formula if you need to. If
your pediatrician is concerned about baby's weight gain, or you need
to return to work and can't pump at your workplace, then supplementing
with formula is fine. Many moms do a combination of breastfeeding
and bottlefeeding with formula.
6. Remember:
Breastfeeding keeps getting easier. As your baby gains head control
and gets big enough to sit up without so much of your support, holding
her in position will be simpler. It sounds impossible to a new mom,
but eventually you'll find yourself talking on the phone, reading,
or even typing on the computer while you nurse! Plus as your baby
begins eating solids, you'll find yourself nursing less. Instead of
feeling as if you spend most of the day breastfeeding, your nursing
sessions will become sweet little respites during busy baby days.
Your
should know:
The
information on this Web site is designed for educational purposes
only. It is not intended to be a substitute for informed medical
advice or care. You should not use this information to diagnose
or treat any health problems or illnesses without consulting your
pediatrician or family doctor. Please consult a doctor with any
questions or concerns you might have regarding your or your child's
condition.